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nakon x godina.....i ja sam dosla do ovog zakljucka!
 
Confession Time: I used to look at a cute, funny, charismatic guy and think: "Yum, yum! I want him!" Now I know better. Now I look at loving, happy couples—watch the happy, healthy dynamic between the guy and girl— and think: "Yum, yum! I want that!"My Lesson/Your Lesson: True love is a that—not a him.Translation: True love is not a wish list but a "wish feeling." And the number one feeling—even before the feeling of love—is the feeling of safety. Without feeling safe, you will never feel true love. You must have trust in your partner's character and prioritize finding a partner who is honest, communicative, and empathic—someone who values growing—so you can feel safe to vulnerably be your truest core self with him—and then together the two of you can support one another to grow into your best possible selves.
 
----neke zene se osjecaju sigurno samo uz bogate muskarce :)

2 Keys to a Happily-Ever-After Love Relationship
duo function of relationship:1. "Den of pleasure"—for fun, companionship, sex, laughter, etc. which you as a human need—so you can keep your soul alive with passion!2. "Laboratory for growth"—the ultimate place of challenge for your soul to be nurtured to grow—where you inspire one another's "character development"—so you can both grow into your most esteemed selves - which is what Aristotle put forth was what true happiness was all about!
Unfortunately, many people solely view a relationship as a place to experience pleasure—leaving out the soul-ly aspects of love—where you nurture each other to grow!In fact, when I ask the women I coach to describe what they're looking for in a partner, they always start off listing sexiness, funniness, smartness and wealthiness!
But these are all personality traits—and pleasures of the body and ego —not character values which nurture the soul/core self.If you want to "live happily ever after in love" you must prioritize finding a man who:
1. Values growing as a person2. Truly understands a relationship serves the double function of "den of pleasure" and "laboratory for growth"After all, if your partner doesn't value growth, he won't be ready to deal with non-fun, inevitable conflicts in a high integrity way. As a result, when those aforementioned disagreements, disappointments, stresses, crises, temptations, sadnesses, monetary-challenges, illnesses, vulnerabilities and misunderstandings arise, your relationship will suffer. Or worse, your partner will run for the hills—end of story, end of relationship!

zato jer znaju da su sanse da nadju onog koji ne vara jako male :)
a zasto muskarci kad saznaju da ih je zena varala odlaze? zato jer znaju da su sanse da nadju postenu zenu velike hahahaha

cure pogledajte ovaj i link prije toga koji sam postala :) dobro je
 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8qg-hLhkwC0&NR=1

love is not a battleground, love is a playground in a world of abandod love.....and there are many many men that are good
 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i43onH-hZkE&feature=related